Friday, May 22, 2009

High Tea for Happy Home

As mentioned before, Ian, Finn and I spend our afternoons at Happy Home. Ian plays soccer with the older kids while Finn and I hang out with the younger kids. Technically, I am "teaching English." I would love to say that's the case, but it's not. There are about 100+ kids crammed into this cinderblock room, ages infant - 9yrs. old. (I'm embarrassed that I used to complain about my classes of 25 kids who were at different levels.) Anyhow, when I attempted to formally "teach", maybe 15 of those kids were engaged. After two sessions of feeling like a failure, I've taken a new approach. We play games; duck-duck-goose, elbow tag, on the bank/in the creek, and others I make up as we go along. The benefits - we are no longer trapped in that small, dark room, the kids are exerting their energy, they seem to be having fun....and we play the games in "English." Even Finn gets a thrill of being able to run around and play in the dirt and yell "duck." Somehow the word is starting to spread about Happy Home. More people are suddenly interested in getting involved. For example, last weekend several diplomatic women hosted a "high tea" as a fundraiser for Happy Home. To be honest, I wasn't thrilled about attending. I was happy to donate money - but I was anxious about the actual event. I'd never been to a high tea before. I wasn't going to know many of these women and wasn't sure if I'd be able to engage in genuine conversation. And of course....the wardrobe dilemna. It's winter here. The mornings and evenings are cold (about 40 degrees). The afternoons, however, reach the 70's. The tea was outdoors from 3-6, meaning half would be warm and the other half cold. I'm glad I didn't bail out! Even though I wasn't exactly in my comfort zone, I had a really nice time. It was really cool to see women from all over the world come together for this good cause. Each hostess sponsored a table and was responsible for selling tickets to women from her country. As I started to walk toward the "American" table, Esther grabbed me and said that I was sitting at her table. Talk about feeling relieved! Nothing against my fellow Americans, it was just nice to sit with Esther and some of her friends I've met by volunteering at Happy Home. After tea was served, we were welcomed by the hostess and invited to help ourselves to the amazing food cooked by all the different nationalities. What a treat! But the best part of the event....the surprise visit / concert from the kids at Happy Home. Most of the women at the event, knew very little about Happy Home. Having the kids there was PERFECT! The women were so impressed. I think they were taken back by their talent (playing the violin, recorder, xylophone, etc.) - and all thanks to the hard work and love of Esther and David! They've been running the home for 10 years now. And WOW! Wish you could have been there!

Monday, May 18, 2009

Finn and Paint

Happy Birthday Patience!

On Wednesday, May 13, we celebrated Patience's 27th birthday. Ali and Lydia came over and we surprised her with cake and presents. Patience was very excited. Finn and Lydia loved eating cake!


April Highlights

Sunday, May 17, 2009

March Highlights

March was certainly a significant month. Our lives are completely different. Finn started walking! Other higlights include our new volunteer gig at Happy Home in Old Naledi, and "Parent Day" at Finn's school.

A Couple of Unsung Heroes

Here is another one of my articles written for the Kalahari Star

On Monday morning, March 30, the Kopong Community library was already busy. Each computer was being used, young adults occupied the round tables, while a training was taking place in the children’s reading room. Teenager Mary Ledzi Mokgweetsi explained that she comes to this library every day, twice a day. “I read the paper, use the computer, and am very involved with the youth library. We use teamwork and cooperation to help the young students with reading, using the computers, and learning more about different cultures.”

She continued to explain that the library is full in the afternoons. This is where everyone comes after school. There is always a line for the computers. Mary paused for a moment, then smiled and said, “I’m so thankful that they brought the library. We were really struggling before, to find information. Now, as you can see, we have books, papers, magazines, and computers!”

The “thanks” goes to Robert and Sara Rothschild.

In 2006 Robert, a retired engineer, traveled to South Africa to help a friend finish constructing a library. Meanwhile, his wife, Sara, spent a couple of weeks here in Botswana on a Habitat for Humanity project where she helped to build a couple of houses. Their combined experiences made an incredible impact. Rather than taking the opportunity to retire after recently selling their family business, they began a new project. One thing lead to another, and eventually the Robert and Sara Rothschild Family Foundation was born. Sara and Robert worked with the Botswana government and now have a Memo of Understanding (MOU) with the Botswana National Library Service (BNLS). The Foundation builds the libraries while the BNLS provides the land, maintenance, books, and the staff.

Their first library opened in September 2007 in Mannangkodi. Kopong Community Library followed 6 months later and opened in February 2008. The most recent library opened in Ramokgonami in October of 2008. At the end of this month, on April 30, the 4th library will open in Matlhako.

In addition to their partnership with the BNLS, the Gates Foundation is using these libraries for one of their pilot programs. The Gates Foundation not only donated and installed six computers in each library, but is also providing computer trainings.

Sara and Robert are incredibly humble people. Just by talking to them, one wouldn’t realize the scope of the positive difference they are making. In order to understand the magnitude of their hard work, huge hearts, and the impact they’ve made on this country, visit one of their libraries. Even better, attend the opening ceremony on April 30 for thelibrary in Matlhako!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

A Happy Home in Old Naledi

In January I started a part-time job with the U.S. Embassy. I'm the editor of the Kalahari Star - a newsletter that is distributed to the American Mission Community in Gaborone. It is distributed electronically every other Friday. I've added a section called "Get Involved" in which I highlight a different organization each issue and include information as to how Americans living here can get invlolved. Today's blog post is straight from today's Kalahari Star. I visited Old Naledi (the poorest village in Gaborone) on Wednesday. The couple of hours I spent at Happy Home were the most touching moments I've experienced in Africa!

Esther and David, Korean missionaries arrived to Botswana in 1996. After 5 years of living here, Esther had a change of heart. Rather than turning her head from the children begging at the BBS mall, she decided to help them. “I have no money to give you, but I can cook. We can meet back at this tree at 5:00 and I will have food.” Esther went home and prepared a meal for these children. As she promised, she met them at 5:00 with plenty of food.

This happened 10 years ago. Not a day has passed since, that Esther hasn’t prepared a meal for children at 5:00. But there is a big difference. That small group of 7 children has turned into a group of 300.

Esther will tell you that for so long she focused most of her time and energy on her own son. She wanted to make sure that he was exposed to music, art, sport, etc. so that he could have a bright future. However, when he returned to Korea to finish his schooling, Esther began to recognize a need for children in Botswana. In order for these children to experience a bright future, someone needed to expose them to the world, ultimately to help them reach their unique potential.

Esther and her husband, David, have done just that. In 2002 they created Happy Home for the children in the village of Old Naledi.

Children arrive to Happy Home after school around 2:30. Each day these children are offered a different activity. Mondays are devoted to music (recorder, xylophone, violin). Tuesdays the children practice English, Wednesdays are dedicated to art and math, Thursdays are for karate and math, while Friday is for sports. Before going home, Esther serves the children a hot dinner, one that she prepares in the morning while the children attend school. On Saturdays, David and Esther bring a group of the children to their own home where they bake, watch videos and just have fun.

While Esther and David have accomplished the unthinkable, they are incredibly humble. It is evident that this couple leads by their example. The children in Happy Home are polite, well behaved and extremely gracious. Thanks to the work of Esther and David, the children are not only confident, but talented. The art and music they create most certainly exude the happiness they find at Happy Home.
To find out how you can get involved with Happy Home, see page 11.



Esther has taught many of the children to play the violin!

The children playing "Amazing Grace" on their recorders.

You can look forward to more pics and videos...for Ian, Finn and I have decided to spend our Friday afternoons at Happy Home!